Have you ever shopped for a house? Real estate advertising can often be misleading. A “charming home, perfect for first-time buyers” translates to the house is the size of a shoebox. “Quaint cottage” means the plumbing is ancient and electricity nowhere near to code. When looking for a home, you need to learn to read between the lines to find the real house within. Is it your dream home or a disaster? This also applies when looking through the ads for rescue dogs.
“Great watchdog” means the dog barks at everything. “Would be perfect for agility” sounds like the dog is hyper and treats furniture like a trampoline. “Would prefer to be an only dog” is a nice way of saying Fido hates other dogs and might eat them. When deciding on a new canine companion to bring home, you need to bypass the propaganda. How can you figure out who a dog really is?
Start with the Rescue Group or Shelter
Before you even look at dogs, it’s important to research where he comes from. There are many wonderful, ethical rescue organizations out there. There are also some terrible ones who may not be honest about a dog’s health or temperament. Rescue groups are experiencing increased scrutiny these days for placing dangerous dogs in homes, with no warning. A big-hearted, unsuspecting family takes a dog into their home, only to find out he is not as advertised. It may be a minor inconvenience to choose a dog who is allegedly housetrained, only for him to have accidents throughout your home. It’s another thing entirely to choose a dog who is supposed to be safe with your kids, only to find out he’s not at all.
Here is a question to ask:
How many of your dogs are returned? Rescue groups love to tout adoption rates, but those numbers can be tricky. If a dog is returned three times, that may count as three adoptions. You want to find out how many dogs don’t work out in their homes and come back to the organization. There will always be cases in which it was an honest effort that didn’t turn out, but if you see high percentages of return, it may mean the shelter is not very good at screening potential adopters. It could also mean they are adopting out dogs that are frankly unadoptable. If a group won’t even tell you its return rate, look elsewhere.
Playing Matchmaker
It’s easy to fall in love with a pair of brown eyes in a fluffy face, but when adopting a dog, it’s important to use your head as well as follow your heart. If you see a dog that catches your fancy, ask these questions:
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Sociability for Success
A dog who is social enjoys people. This is a common key to successful adoptions. You want a dog who cares about you and wants to work with you.
When you meet your potential friend, try to meet in a room he’s never been in before. Give the dog a minute or two to get comfortable and familiar with the new surroundings. Sit in a chair and relax and see what he does. (Keep in mind that all shelter dogs are in a stressful situation and this affects their behaviour.)
Tests:
Just because a dog is in rescue doesn’t mean he’s broken. Dogs end up in rescue for tons of reasons. You deserve a dog that will work well for your family. Please don’t let guilt be your guide. It’s easy to melt into a puddle when you see a dog cowering under a chair, flinching at your every move, but realize this dog will be a project. Love is never enough to fix a dog. Extremely fearful dogs require behaviour modification, sometimes medication, training, compassion, money, and patience in order to make progress. A dog that already has a bite history may be “misunderstood,” but he’s also a legal liability.
If you want a “fixer upper,” by all means adopt a challenge. But know what you’re getting into before you bring the dog home. Talk with your veterinarian and a professional trainer or behaviourist to find out what it will take to work with a dog who is aggressive or fearful. Otherwise, you could be taking on more than you can handle.
Will it take time to find the perfect companion? Yes. Once you have your new best friend home and he fits so well into your life, you’ll understand he was totally worth the effort!
Love is Blind
You were blind and diabetic, a combination that resulted in a life of daily shots and furniture that always stayed in the same place. Bones visible on your frail body and special dog food adorning our cabinets, we gave you a life of limited space. You went to the bathroom in a certain spot, slept in a certain spot, and moved where you could. I wish you could’ve known more, and that I could’ve known you more. As a dog more than sick. One day you crawled up to me like you knew me and I hope that was enough.—Alyssa Asaro
Not a Casual Barker
Harper is a barker. Not just a casual barker but an ‘every time I get into the car barker.’ We’ve tried everything to stop his barking in the car but to no avail. Although friends and family feel his barking is unnecessary and Harper needs discipline, I beg to differ. He barks not to be bad but is greeting all his friends. One day, while driving and talking on my cell to my niece, Missy, I explained that once out of the neighbourhood, he would stop. Twenty minutes later, my niece exclaimed, “wow, he has a lot of friends.”—Sandra Roth
Pawprints On My Heart
I remember you as a puppy with paws too big for your feet. You were so rambunctious. Training was an adventure, to say the least. You mastered “sit” right away, but “stay” took a little longer. I remember the time I was yelling “stay” as you ran out the door, barking, towards the neighbour’s cat. You sort of listened because you stopped right at the edge of the yard. But I only saw the pawprints in the freshly set driveway. Now as I look at you speckled with gray, I realize those pawprints are cemented on my heart.—Joely Hart
A Smile That Saved
“I really need to leave a note,” she thought. But what could she say? Whenever she would bring up how depressed she felt, people would say, “You? What do you have to be depressed about?” and that would only make her feel worse. She would half-heartedly laugh and retreat inside herself, mired in the feeling of despair that consumed her with increasing regularity. As she sat palming the bottle, her Corgi Fry trotted up to her. Their eyes met and, in that moment, her despair subsided. The pills returned to the bedside drawer and they went for a long walk.—Dylan Schulz
D-O-G: Disciples Of God
A little black rescue puppy changed my life forever. Baldwin, a Puli, was a high-octane ball of fluff. I quickly learned he needed a job and joined Therapy Dogs International. On our first hospital visit, Baldwin and I met Maria, a seven-year-old battling cancer. At first she looked pale and gaunt, but her colour started to return when Baldwin entered. Within moments, Baldwin lay across her lap and began to breathe deeply. While stroking his curls, Maria closed her eyes and breathed deep with him, looking better with every breath. That’s when I understood why “dog” is “God” spelled backwards.—Susan Hartzler
Pregnant Pause
For one of my earlier litters, I vaguely remembered that I had ordered a bottle of Bitch Pills (a prenatal vitamin for dogs) from Thomas Labs. I looked up the number on Google (I had not yet become hooked on Amazon Prime).
"Good Morning," a pleasant voice answered. "This is Jane McCormick. May I help you?"
"Hi Jane," I replied. "Do you carry Bitch Pills?"
Silence.
With uncertainty she said: “This is the Albany Seminary.”
“Oh my God,” I nearly said aloud, quickly adding “Oops, wrong number.”
Almost before I finished, Jane laughingly interrupted: “Well, some of us up here may need some…”—Eleanor Green Winters
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