As a confirmed workaholic, others usually notice I need time off from animal rescue before I do.

That happened today. I sat eating lunch with a friend at an excellent Seattle Japanese restaurant called Red Fin when I noticed something sitting on the next table.

One woman had ordered a bento box for lunch, and was courteously leaving it closed and uneaten while she waited for her lunch-mateโ€™s meal to be served. A bento box, a shellacked plastic box with a series of square compartments, separates rice from vegetables from seafood.

Iโ€™ve only seen them in a square shape before. This one looked like only one thing to me, and it wasnโ€™t a food receptacle. Before I could stop myself, the words that formed my thoughts had slipped out of my mouth.

โ€œIs that a bird coffin?โ€ I inquired.

As an animal rescuer, I thought they had brought their dearly departed pet to lunch. The women responded by wrinkling their faces — half in laughter, half in disgust.

Trying to explain myself only made matters worse.

โ€œItโ€™s the perfect size and shape, isnโ€™t it? Maybe for a macaw, or a parrotโ€ฆ?โ€

Usually I proclaim that taking a break is for the birds. Perhaps itโ€™s time to re-evaluate.